Tennis's Post-Match Handshake and Its Complexities

The unwritten rules of tennis have been a topic of discussion during the U.S. Open, with particular attention given to the post-match greeting at the net. This customary act, typically involving a handshake and sometimes a hug or kiss, is intended to be a display of sportsmanship. However, it occasionally leads to awkward or contentious situations.

While not every sport concludes with such a display of civility, it's a deeply ingrained ritual in tennis, observed from junior levels to professional play. Brad Gilbert, a former player and coach, emphasizes its significance, stating that it's "part of the fabric of our sport." He highlights the importance of winning with class and losing with dignity.

The U.S. Open has witnessed instances where this tradition has gone awry. Jelena Ostapenko and Taylor Townsend had a heated exchange after their match, with Ostapenko criticizing Townsend. Another incident involved Stefanos Tsitsipas, who expressed his disapproval of an underarm serve to Daniel Altmaier at the net.

These tense moments aren't exclusive to the U.S. Open. Social media chronicles instances of less-than-enthusiastic handshakes and post-match disagreements. Players like Linda Noskova acknowledge the attention given to these interactions. Other examples include exchanges between Ben Shelton and Flavio Cobolli, Danielle Collins and Iga Swiatek, and Taylor Fritz's sarcastic comment to an opponent.

Despite the occasional tension, the tradition of the post-match handshake is generally valued. Maria Sakkari acknowledges that disagreements are inevitable, given the diverse backgrounds and cultures of the players. Even in the heat of the moment, as demonstrated by Brad Gilbert's past experience, the handshake remains a symbol of respect.