The Social and Economic Fallout of a Gender Imbalance

China is grappling with a significant social crisis, marked by a surplus of approximately 30 million men compared to women. This disparity presents considerable difficulties for millions of men seeking partners. This imbalance, one of the most pronounced gender imbalances globally, is largely a consequence of past policies and cultural preferences that favored male offspring.

The roots of this gender gap can be traced back to China's one-child policy, implemented in 1980 due to concerns about overpopulation. This policy coincided with a strong preference for sons, who were seen as crucial for continuing the family lineage and providing financial support in later life. This led to widespread sex-selective abortions, abandonment, and even the killing of female infants.

The long-term consequences of this are now heavily impacting society. The documentary "The Dating Game" highlights the challenges faced by many men, particularly those from less affluent, rural backgrounds. Dating coach Hao, who works with thousands of clients, explains that men from the working class are the least likely to find wives. Hao and his clients, including Li, Wu, and Zhou, face not only dating difficulties but also social stigma linked to their economic standing.

The film follows Hao as he guides these men through makeovers, social interactions, and dating events in cities like Chongqing, attempting to overcome cultural and economic obstacles. Despite these efforts, success is often limited and financially demanding. The financial strain adds to the emotional and social pressure. The film's director, Violet Du Feng, describes the film as an attempt to address the extreme gender divide.

The demographic impact is severe. China officially ended the one-child policy in 2016, acknowledging the long-term consequences, including a declining birthrate and an aging population. The government now organizes matchmaking events to encourage marriage and childbirth, but the imbalance persists. Marriage, and the ability to marry, is still largely expected of men, particularly as the primary financial provider.