The question of when it's safe to retire from parenting is a recurring thought. The idea of retirement itself isn't particularly appealing, as I enjoy my various jobs.
While I enjoy my work, being at home with my children often feels more demanding than my actual job. I love my kids, truly, but parenting is not a relaxing experience.
After a challenging week, I never feel as drained from stand-up as I do from a family trip. As any parent of a teenager can attest, sometimes the workplace offers a more relaxing environment.
With five children ranging from 12 to 20, being at home can feel like being in a psych ward. I find myself mumbling, and suddenly, my shoelaces disappear. It's easy to see how teenagers might be a factor in the rising retirement age.
People are starting families later in life, and some may need to work longer to save for retirement or secure a good pension. However, by the time you reach 65 or 70, your children are typically no longer living with you. In a way, that's when it's finally safe to go home.
Perhaps I will retire... I just need to get rid of those kids.
7 Comments
Rotfront
“There should be no shame in wanting to take a breather from parenting responsibilities!”
Karamba
“It’s refreshing to hear someone speak the truth about parenting! It’s not always sunshine and rainbows!”
Matzomaster
“Cheers to recognizing how hard parenting can be. Finding joy in the chaos is the goal, but it's not easy!”
Karamba
“I understand the struggle! If only we could clock out like we do at our jobs.”
Matzomaster
“That’s the truth! By the time I get some time for myself, my kids are back with their own drama!”
Donatello
“I laugh at the ’psych ward’ comparison. It can feel that way some days! Hang in there!”
Rotfront
“I laugh at the ’psych ward’ comparison. It can feel that way some days! Hang in there!”