A Ukrainian Refugee's Journey of Loss, Hope, and New Beginnings

When Kira hears thunder in her new home of Ulladulla, Australia, it reminds her of the explosions that once shook her hometown in Ukraine. Over three years ago, at the age of 15, she was awakened by falling missiles before dawn. The experience was surreal, a booming noise that she quickly realized was not thunder, but bombs.

Kira's life was irrevocably changed on February 24, 2022, the day Russia invaded Ukraine. Her father told her mother to stop worrying and start packing. As the war escalated, millions of women and children fled the country, while most men were required to stay and defend Ukraine. For Kira's family, the decision to separate was agonizing, but her and her younger sister's safety was paramount. Her mother wanted them to have a future free from the constant worry of war.

With the war now in its fourth year, many families have been torn apart. Kira's mother chose Australia because her sister had already migrated there. They arrived in April 2022 after traveling to the Polish border and waiting for travel permits. Ulladulla offered a warmer, sunnier environment compared to their snow-capped city. Kira initially believed the war would be short-lived, viewing their move as a temporary holiday. However, the war continued, and her mother had to find work to support them.

Staying in touch with her father was initially difficult due to power outages and internet issues in Ukraine. He now lives under Russian occupation and cares for Kira's diabetic grandmother, who was unable to leave. Kira's father and grandmother miss her and her sister greatly, and calls often bring them to tears. The UN has reported that many refugee children have also been separated from a parent, usually the father.

Kira still feels heartache for her loved ones in Ukraine and worries about their safety. The cities occupied by Russia face unemployment, food shortages, and constant fear. Ukrainian children in these areas are particularly vulnerable, facing death, injury, and the imposition of Russian citizenship and curriculum. Kira struggles to process these harsh realities.

While she loves her life in Australia, she is saddened by the suffering of her people. She copes by trying to avoid the news. Caught between two worlds, she wants to maintain her family bonds and culture while embracing her new life. She hopes to see her father in person someday. Kira is passionate about interior design and international studies. She finds peace and safety in Australia, but starting a new life, making friends, studying, and working has been stressful. She is currently waiting for her permanent residency permit and saving for university.