Growing up, marriage and children never appealed to me. Now in my late 60s, my fluffy dog Poppy is my companion. I've had a fulfilling life as a travel writer, exploring the world and visiting places most people dream of.
Despite having numerous boyfriends, I never felt the need for a family. However, when I met someone special, the relationship sadly didn't work out. As I aged, my desire to become a mother grew stronger, but I lacked the courage to have a child without a stable relationship.
I hoped to find a partner with children, but it never happened. To compensate, I looked after friends' children, but I remained their parents' friend rather than part of their family.
Now, my friends are grandparents, and I am often the odd one out at gatherings. I have cousins with families, but I am rarely invited to their events. When I go out with friends who have children and grandchildren, the conversation often revolves around their families, which can be羨慕的.
However, I find solace in Poppy, my loyal dog, and in the company of other single people like me. While I may not have grandchildren, I have a fulfilling life filled with travel, friendship, and the love of my furry companion.
13 Comments
Marishka
😄 "Don't let societal expectations dictate your happiness. You've found fulfillment in your own way, and that's all that matters.
Pupsik
😟 "It's never too late to change your mind. Consider adoption or foster care and give a child a loving home.
Marishka
🥰 "Poppy is lucky to have you as her companion. Your love for your dog is heartwarming.
Pupsik
🥳 "Every individual has a unique path. You've carved your own path, and it's a testament to your strength, independence, and passion for life.
Marishka
🥳 "Focus on the positive aspects of your life, such as your travel experiences, your supportive friends, and your beloved Poppy. Don't let envy steal your joy.
Habibi
🥺 "I really hope you find a stable relationship and have a chance to become a mother. It's a life-changing experience that everyone should have.
ZmeeLove
👏 "Travel and adventure are fulfilling experiences that enrich your life in ways children can't. You've made the most of your opportunities.
Muchacho
🤝 "It's understandable that you feel excluded sometimes, but remember that you have close friends and other single people in your life who understand your situation.
Coccinella
👪 "While pets are great companions, they can't replace the love and connection of family. You're missing out on a fundamental part of life.
Muchacha
🥺 "I can't imagine living my life without children. They bring so much happiness and purpose to your life.
Bella Ciao
😠 "Not everyone is meant for parenthood. But don't try to convince others that your lifestyle is superior when you clearly yearn for the connections a family provides.
Africa
🙌 "Continue exploring the world, expanding your horizons, and enjoying the company of Poppy and your friends. You're living a beautiful life.
Coccinella
🤬 "Your post is full of negativity and envy. Instead of focusing on what you don't have, appreciate the blessings you do have.